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Bride's Name
Avanti Ananthram
Groom's Name
Goutham Bhadr
Wedding Date
26th August 2006
Ceremony Venue
Rushton Hall
Reception Venue
Rushton Hall

How & Where Did You Meet?
We have known each other since we were kids but didn't really speak to each other until the age of 19 as we did not like each other! We had common friends and on Goutham's 19th birthday Avanti went along with her friends to join in the partying. Avanti's first words to Goutham were 'I suppose I should say happy birthday to you, but that's all I am going to say!' as all this time they had ignored each other. This conjured up an argument and these arguments grew into a relationship! We still do not know how that happened!

Which Venue Did You Choose & Why?
We started our wedding planning quite late as Avanti was working in New York when Goutham proposed. Anita Patel our wedding planner recommended Rushton Hall which was perfect for us and we fell in love with it as soon as we visited. It was fairly close to home (an hour away from Birmingham, Redditch and London where most our relatives and friends live), and we had exclusive use of the whole building and beautiful grounds, courtyard and rooms and were able to set up a marquee for 450 guests. What more could we want?

 

How did you plan your wedding?
Avanti was working in New York so it was difficult to plan the wedding from across the globe. Goutham was in London most of the time and really didn't want to be left to organise the wedding! I think a bloke's worst nightmare! To add to this challenge our family and friends have so many different ideas which were great but we needed one person to pull all this together to come up with a wedding to remember. This key person was Anita Patel, our wedding planner, who was recommended by family friend who recently got married with their wedding organised by Anita.

We couldn't have made this day possible without Anita. She was so easy going, flexible to our needs and wants. She always had her eye on the bigger picture as well as on the details of the day which can often be overlooked. She was very open to listening to our ideas and ensuring our personalities came through throughout the day. Most importantly she put our ideas into practice and made this possible. She works with a variety of great suppliers which really saved us a great deal of time and effort. I would definitely recommend her to all and sundry!

What did the bride wear?
For the Hindu ceremony I wore a red and burnt orange saree with mirror work and intricate embroidery giving a rajasthani look. A cream and dusky pink saree for the civil wedding. A turquoise brocade silk fishtail skirt and halter neck top with delicate antique gold zardozi embroidery and coin work.

What did the groom wear?
Goutham wore a traditional Indian outfit during the Indian ceremony, a short kurta embroidered in antique gold thread with a matching dhoti. For the civil ceremony he wore a steel grey suit complimented with a pink tie. Lastly for the reception he wore A dark grey suit with an embroidered waistcoat and shocking turquoise cravat as a finishing touch coordinating with Avanti.

Describe the wedding. Were there any particularly memorable moments?
I think this was an extremely memorable day for all our friends and family. We received many thank you cards and many of our family and friends mentioned that 'it was the most amazing wedding they had been to.' Also family and friends no matter what their age enjoyed the day as there was something for everyone. Friends had said there was surprise after surprise…you didn't know what to expect next!

Most memorable moments included the cocktails in the courtyard with the bollywood jazz band who were fantastic, the innovative cake including the father of the bride on top, the funny and witty speeches, the fire eater, Honey Kalaria's fantastic bollywood dance performance, Meera and Jaymin Patel (our friends) doing a dance for us, the themed dancefloor/moghul tent, saxophone player walking us into the reception - take your pick!

What Kind Of Food Did You Have?
For the wedding we had Traditional South Indian thali lunch with mango and pistachio kulfi ice-cream for dessert. For the reception we had a South Indian banquet and amazing petit - fours, profiterole towers for dessert in a separate dessert marquee.

Our wedding caked by Hockley;s comprised three suitcases with the bride and groom and father of the bride on the top of the cake (as a joke!). the groom had a laptop on his lap as Goutham is always associated with this and Macy's, SAKs and Gucci shopping bags near the bride as she loves shopping. Very personalised as we always travel a lot. It was a rich chocolate fudge cake which we dug into in the early hours of the morning.

Our Wedding Venue
Rushton Hall - 01536 713001

Our Wedding Planner
Tania Tapel - 0116 247 1115

Our Wedding Cake
Hockleys Cake - 01604 881 551

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