PAGRI OR SAAFA (WEDDING TURBAN)
The pagri or wedding turban is an extremely majestic accessory but a lot of guys may take much convincing before they are seen sporting one on their big day! If you're in love with your spiky hair style and wont let anyone touch it, then it's unlikely that a pagri is for you!

Pagris should always be individually and stylishly draped to suit the shape of your head and complement the shape of your face. They should never be an over the counter purchase which is parked on your head to make you look ridiculous. Common varieties of turbans are those in simple bandhani designs and crushed fabric. Do ensure that your pagri works with the rest of your outfit, and dosnt look like something which you plonked on your head as an after thought.

MOJHRIS OR JHOOTIS
There are likely to be times on your wedding day where you will have to remove your shoes and mojris are the ideal slip on slip off option. Mojris are considered as the royal ethnic footwear to go with traditional Indian dressing like sherwanis and kurta pyjamas. They come in a plethora of colours and designs, and are normally hand crafted.

Choose mojris that match one of the dominant colours in your outfit. A current trend is for mojris to be designed with the same material as your khes or pagri or can be custom embroidered with small motifs to suit your tastes. You should ideally have a separate pair of mojris for each outfit that you will be wearing. If mojris are just not for you, Indian chappals in a neutral shade are the ideal option. Don't make the mistake of wearing western shoes with traditional ethnic clothes - its like putting ketchup on biryani!

COLOURS & STYLING
Before you unleash your credit card on the boutiques in Ealing Road and Green Street, it's a good idea to do some research. Browse through design books and magazines and surf the net to get an idea of the styles and colours, which appeal to you. By gaining an insight into the variety of outfits on offer, you'll be making an informed choice and will ensure that you buy a fabulous outfit, second to none that has your name written all over it.

Today it is perfectly acceptable for a man to flaunt colour. The wonderful thing about ethnic clothes is that they give you the chance to experiment with colours that previously have not entered your wardrobe. The final choice will depend on your personal taste and what you feel comfortable wearing, though you should take the following into account.

Your skin tone should be a deciding factor in choosing the colour of your outfits. Generally speaking, if you are fair, darker deeper colours will suit you very well. Guys with a wheatish or dark complexion should opt for creams, whites and beiges or vibrant colours to offset their skin tone.

The type of event that you are choosing the outfit for is also an important factor to take into account. For pre-wedding functions like Sangeets, Mehndis and Sanjis you should go for an ethnic look to match the theme of the occasion. A kurta pyjama in bright vibrant colours like blues, maroon, deep green or rust with tasteful embroidery and a matching waistcoat or snazzy bandhani duppatta will be right on the mark. Kurtas with ornate Jamevar work are also very popular this season.

Colours chosen for the wedding ceremony tend to be more traditional with most grooms sticking to some combination of cream, beige, ivory, gold, maroon and red, with rich traditional embroidery. A maroon kurta with white pyjamas and a long sleeved embroidered white overcoat will look stunning. Accessorise this with a maroon khes shot with gold thread and you can't go wrong.

For receptions, blacks, in particular black Sherwanis and Jodhpuri suits are still a hot favourite, though deep rust, navy blues, bottle greens and deep mauves are also making an appearance. A back outfit with tasteful embroidery using swarovski crystals and a matching khes in black crushed material will look simply stunning.

Whatever colours you choose, always consult with your bride to see that your outfit meets with her approval. The last thing you want to do is to start your married life committing the unforgivable crime of wearing an outfit that draws more attention to you than your bride! Ensure that the colours and style you are wearing for each function will complement her clothes and the theme of your wedding (if you have one). You may even want to match your outfit colours exactly for that coordinated look!

SIZE MATTERS!
No matter how good the outfit looks on a model in a magazine or on a mannequin in a shop, it doesn't guarantee that it will look as good on you. You need to make an honest assessment of your body shape and take this into account when choosing your outfit, to make sure that you show up on your big day in an outfit that makes you look your best.

Men who are short in stature should wear clothes, which add some height to their frame. Well cut Sherwanis & Kurtas which are below knee length will give you a taller look. Keep embroidery to a minimum, just around the neck and down the front of the outfit. Drape a long khes around your neck and wear a pagri on your head to add some height to your frame.

Very tall guys or those who are noticeably taller than their brides should not over emphasise their height but use it to their best advantage. Grooms who carry their height above the waist should opt for shorter Sherwanis or Kurtas, which are heavily embroidered. Conversely guys with long legs should go for long Sherwanis and Kurtas and stay away from tight fitting churidar bottoms. If possible, avoid wearing a pagri as this will only add to your height.

Guys with a broad well-built upper body but with a narrow waist and slim legs should go for a shorter Kurta or Sherwani length, no longer than the knee, thereby giving the impression of longer legs and a more streamlined figure. You should be careful to avoid Kurtas, Sherwanis and Jackets with excessive embroidery as these will draw attention to the upper half of your body and re-enforce your top heaviness. If you choose to wear a Dupatta, it should be draped over one shoulder to add balance to your stature.

Skinny guys with a very lean build need an outfit that provides some bulk and shape to their body and gives them a more manly frame. Choose an outfit that is well cut but which doesn't cling to your body. The idea is that you want to add the appearance of more weight to your frame. A top with lots of embroidery will make you appear broader than you actually are and wearing a dupatta over one shoulder and draping it over the other arm will also give the impression of a more masculine build.

Gents who are "well rounded" or have got a bit of excess girth should choose clothes that are well tailored but hang loosely on the body to give it some shape and take attention away from their beer bellies! Try and go for embroidery or prints, which runs in lines down the outfit, which will give the impression of a slimmer body. A dupatta worn around the shoulders or draped elegantly around the neck will also add height to your frame.